Kite trip 2017 – Round 2

We are back in Punta Chame after a 10 day trip back to the States. Eric’s grandmother turned 90 years young on February 25th, and we insisted on being at her party to celebrate with her and over 100 of her closest friends and family members! We also had the chance to see the Solms and Paris families, all the nieces and nephews, to catch up with some friends, and to watch Carolina beat Dook at my sister’s house! Woohoo! Additionally, we welcomed not one, but TWO new nieces (or as Eric insists on saying, first cousins, once removed) into the world – one from each side of the family! Congrats again to Ashley and Ian, Shawna and Kevin! We can’t wait to meet Chloe and Kenna!

I also really appreciated our home while we were there. I am finally embracing the fact that I am not the outdoorsy girl that I’ve always wanted to be. I love that our walls and our ceiling connect. I love my shower and fluffy towels. I love my dishwasher. I love sitting in my chair with a book, a blanket, and my dog.

While we were home I voiced these thoughts to Eric. In response, he commented that I’m more attached to the material comforts than he is. I didn’t like hearing that. I was offended, actually, when he said it. But it’s true. I don’t like that about myself, and I don’t know what to do about that. Maybe it’s okay to like things clean and comfortable. But maybe I can work on the part of me that thinks I need a dishwasher. Maybe that’s part of what I’m doing here in the middle of nowhere. I hope to continue to be intentional about that over the next three weeks.

It’s amazing and strange how normal the flights down here are getting for us. We know the Miami airport well. We know to ride the train two stops down from our usual gate to get Wendy’s for Eric and that my smoothie place is past the Cuban restaurant. I take comfort in the fish themed art on the walls and the familiar brass inlay on the floors. I know that Miami will be the coldest part of our journey – that airport is always freezing! We’re continually reminded how blessed we are (this sounds trite even as I write it, but I really do mean it) that we can have these adventures.

Yesterday, Eric finally got to kite in some decent wind! He was thrilled. There isn’t much that gets him as excited and emotive as kiting. It’s a lot of fun to see. He had a couple of good jumps too – one about 2 feet off the water that he landed, and one about 4 feet that he…did not land so gracefully. As the sun began to set, Eric was out on the water with only two other people, his instructor and another instructor. A few minutes later, he had the whole beach completely to himself. THIS is why we’re here.

I guess I haven’t announced here that I have a couple of new jobs. I have been thinking for a long time that I would enjoy editing novels. Finally, a few months ago, I decided to go for it. After applying to some internships and not having much luck, I sent out emails to a few publishers that I found through a random Google search saying that I was willing to read and evaluate the manuscript submissions they receive from prospective authors. Within a couple of days, the Editor in Chief of a publishing house in Colorado wrote back offering to let me do exactly that. I started almost immediately, and it’s been a great thing for me. I read synopses of novels plus the first three chapters, usually from a hammock, and then evaluate them. Don’t get me wrong – some submissions are boring, some are terribly written, and some have so many comma splices that I want to scream – but it’s the kind of work I can see myself doing for a while. The best part is that my editor is willing to answer all of my questions about publishing and editing. She seems like she’s willing to be a sort of mentor to me as I set out into this new field – and that’s exactly what I need.

While we were in Maryland for Gram’s birthday, I received an email from a larger publisher in London offering to let me review mainly mystery and crime novels that are nearly ready to be published. With these books, I am getting to practice some actual editing, in addition to evaluating the story. The two gigs complement each other well, and I am learning a lot from them. Did you know that in the UK, they generally say, for example, “the whole group are going to lunch,” as opposed to “the whole group is going to lunch”? Like I said, I’m learning a lot…both about editing and about UK English and grammar.

Yep, it’s about to get super interesting, folks. Stay tuned for more grammar trivia.

 

Punta Chame 2 – More Kiteboarding!

First and foremost, my niece Laine turned 6 on February 1.  Happy Birthday Laine!  I was lucky enough to FaceTime with her both before and on her bday.  Here’s what happens when her parents leave us to have a conversation by ourselves:

And here’s one that show just how grown-up she is!  I’ve got to get home to my sweet nieces and nephew soon!  Being away from them has been the hardest part of being here.

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And one more from her birthday:

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Also, Addie turned 10 on Groundhog’s Day!  This is how she celebrated:

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Then Addie went to stay with our housekeeper for a few days.  Sadly, Eric is hooked on kiteboarding so I dutifully accompanied him to a gorgeous, peaceful, breezy beach in the middle of the week.  Again.

Seriously, if you wanna be happy for the rest of your life (yes Mom, I just sang the old song in my head), be in a couple where one of you is a kiteboarder.  Or a surfer.  Or a windsurfer.  Eric’s new hobby is the best thing to happen to me since capoeira.  After testing it out when we were in Punta Chame with Jennifer and Ray, he decided to invest in a package of lessons.  So there we were, back on the same beach two weeks later, only in a cheaper and nicer B&B with better food.  Sorry J-Ray.  We didn’t know.

Just like the last Punta Chame trip, we had a little photo shoot at sunset.

And took a few selfies:

When I was reviewing our photos, I found this.  What’s that right behind me?

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Oh right, it’s a guy flying through the air on his board.  Amazing.  These guys would get 20 feet out of the water and just float for a while.  Beautiful to watch.

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So, now for the interesting stuff.  Eric’s kiteboarding.  This week he had 6 hours of lessons – two hours per day on wednesday, thursday, and friday.  The first day, he got up and actually really boarded for the first time rather than just popping up and falling again.  He was so excited!  The second day, he started getting the hang of getting up, but needed to correct a few things on how he was flying the kite.  Today, on Day Three, he did some serious riding!  He was thrilled, and I couldn’t be more excited for him.  It’s so much fun to see him so into this.  I’m really glad he and Jennifer tried it out and that he went for the extra lessons.  I can see him enjoying this for a long time.  I actually just caught him looking at equipment prices online.  Apparently there’s decent kiting in Kitty Hawk…

One other update, we do not have the Zika virus yet.  We will keep you updated.

No, seriously though, no one we know has gotten it.  There’s an awful lot of hype in the news, but we’re not too worried.  There aren’t many mosquitos during the dry season anyway.

Ray and Jennifer’s visit (brother- and sister-in-law)

Eric’s brother, Ray, and his wife, Jennifer, came to visit us for a week!  They had originally planned to come last year some time, but then the trip fell through.  We were really bummed and thought they weren’t going to make it at all.  They surprised us a couple of months ago and said they were buying plane tickets!  We were thrilled.

This was the first time the four of us have been together for more than an evening without their kids, Rylee (7) and Tyler (almost 4).  Of course we love the kids dearly and have missed them a lot this year, but it was kinda cool for all the grown-ups to have a whole week to play and relax!

They got here on Saturday, January 16.  On Sunday, we took our time getting up and cooking breakfast…until I figured out a pet sitter for Addie and found a beach hotel for us. As soon as that happened, we were out the door and heading to Punta Chame within the hour!

Punta Chame is at the end of a long (for Panamá) peninsula about an hour and a half from the city.  It’s been on our list of places to visit for a long time because it’s known for kitesurfing, and Eric has been wanting to try it.  When Jennifer said she’d be up for giving it a go too, that sealed the deal.

We checked out the beach the first night, and it’s gorgeous.  You can see the mountains on the mainland on the other side of the bay.  Between that, the incredible sunsets, and all the kites everywhere, it’s just beautiful.

Jennifer is an amazing photographer.  She took my bridal portraits, actually, which I LOVE.  On the beach, however, we asked the boys to handle the cameras while we pulled out our tricks.  Jennifer is a certified Body Combat instructor (a fast-paced martial arts fitness class), so she practiced her moves while I did some capoeira.

The next day, Eric and Jennifer braved their first kiteboarding lesson while Ray and I drank Balboas (Panamanian beer) and watched.  We were pretty happy to be on our end of things.  It looked like a lot of hard work!

I can’t remember the exact order of events from the rest of the week, but the three of them enjoyed Eric’s new favorite board game, Terra Mystica, over a couple of nights.

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On Tuesday night, Jennifer came with me to capoeira!  She did an incredible job.  She’s already an athlete with a lot of rhythm, so it seemed like a lot of things came pretty naturally to her.  I was really impressed.  She even joined in on a roda at the end of practice, and I got to play with her!  I was really touched that she came with me and very proud of how well she did.

The next night, we switched it up and went to a BodyCombat class.  I had never been to one, and Jennifer has been an instructor for a little while now.  She’s really passionate about the program, so I wanted to check it out and support her in the way that she supported me by going to capoeira.  It was great having her in front of me since she already knew all the moves.  It was very cool to see her in her element!  It was a great little group of folks too, so we had a good time.

BodyCombat!

BodyCombat!

On Wednesday before BodyCombat, we drove up to the Atlantic ocean and enjoyed a ziplining course in the middle of nowhere.  There were some doubts as to whether or not our poor little Toyota Yaris was going to be able to make the 4 km off-road trek to the beginning of the course, but she pulled it off!  That poor car…we could really use some kind of 4×4 sometimes in this country, but she has taken us through a lot!  Anyway, the ziplining was great – a lot more relaxed about rules that in the US.  Still safe though, Mom.  I promise.  J-Ray has the photos from that, so maybe they’ll be in a later post.

On the way home, Jennifer, Ray and I took the train from Colón to Panamá (Atlantic to Pacific ocean along the Canal), while Eric drove the car home, just like I did when his parents were in town.

Eric took Ray to the Canal the next day, then to Panamá Viejo on Friday while Jennifer and I enjoyed some rest.  Oh, and one night there was a dance party in the apartment…yes, just the 4 of us.  Somehow this happened:

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Just two brothers, solving the world’s problems.

On Thursday night, before their scheduled departure on Friday, Jennifer and Ray found out that their flight had been canceled due to snow in NC.  Remember the snow/ice storm a few weeks ago?  Yeah, that.  I knew they were ready to get home to the kids, but Eric and I were thrilled to have them for 2 extra nights.  The whole week was just really relaxing and fun.  We’re so grateful to have had so much of our family visit us this year!

And now, here it is, your moment of Zen: