Íntimo dinner y Life Warriors Graduation

Why the egg picture?  I took it last week and I like it.  That’s all.

On Friday night, Eric and I treated ourselves to a wonderful dinner at a place called Íntimo Restaurante (Intimate).  Eric had heard about it though a New York Times article and decided we needed to try it out.  Good call.  It was 11 courses of amazingness.  Our favorites were black beans with local cheese and buttermilk topped with tiny pieces of watermelon and some sort of flavor that we had never tasted before, a spinach leaf with coconut rice and a banana slice topped with some kind of brown amazingness sauce, and then Eric loved the rabbit and lamb.  The idea of eating tiny cute animals bothers me when I think about it too much, so he gladly ate my portions.

We happened to end up at the Chef’s Table, which really meant the bar.  Sneaky trick, huh?  The place is tiny, so it looks like they put all couples at the bar.  This also placed us next to a couple celebrating their 33rd wedding anniversary by having the 11 courses paired with 11 (heavy handedly poured) drinks.  They were already quite talkative by the time we arrived…for better or worse.  Steve and Karen (not the Whitings, our dear friends who read scripture at our wedding), we learned, had lived in seven different countries and had most recently escaped from Indiana.  Steve alerted Eric to the presence of a liquor store that sells bourbon and offered to take him out there, so Eric may have found a friend.

The next day, Eric went on a tour of an Embera village on the other side of the country while I went to a graduation ceremony for a girls’ empowerment group that a friend of mine has been leading.  Eric joined our friend and neighbor Stella, her family from Sweden, and our neighbors from Colombia.  He enjoyed the tour and said he even danced with one of the women from the village!  I was glad to hear it.  Apparently this is a town of 48 people.  They have their own school (pictured below).  Giving these tours is their main source of income.  Very interesting.

Meanwhile, I went to Casco Viejo (the old city) to support my friend Jessie and the girls she has been working with for the past several months.  Jessie formed a group called Las Guerreras de la Vida, or Life Warriors.  Every Saturday morning, these 10-12 year old girls meet with Jessie to do an hour of capoeira and/or self-defense.  They then spend an hour discussing life goals, working on their self-esteem, etc.  I went to the class a few months ago to take photos, and it was really cool to see how much the girls had progressed since then.

The girls first shared with us some of their goals and how they planned to achieve them.  I managed to keep my mouth shut when many of them said they wanted to be lawyers.  🙂  They then practiced some of their self-defense moves (shouting “No!”  It was awesome!).  Lastly, there was a roda, and many folks from my capoeira group (CDO) participated.  I love it when CDO joins up with the kids’ groups.  It’s so cool to see how much they are capable of…kids are so flipping bend-y!  The backbends that these girls can do blow my mind.  They just fold in half.

Jessie gave out certificates and prizes, then we had cake.  Overall, it was a great time.  The parents were proud and taking photos, our group was happy and very proud of Jessie’s work, and Jessie’s mom was able to be there, with tears in her eyes the whole time.  Just a really beautiful event.

Afterwards a couple of friends (including Auri and her daughter Vicky from one of the photos above) came over and we played Pictionary next to the pool.  Vicky is working on her English, so she made a deal with Eric that she would speak English if he would speak Spanish.  It worked out pretty well!  Moisés, who you may remember from past posts as a former CDO guy and a dear friend who we don’t see nearly enough, paid us a visit too.  All in all a very nice night.

Yesterday was very relaxing.  I capped it off with a short run and a nice talk with one of the guys who works on his fútbol juggling skills in the same place where I train capoeira.  Actually, it’s more than juggling…there’s a huge acrobatic element to it.  These guys add handstands and handsprings and all kinds of things in.  They definitely have some of the requisite skills down for capoeira.  It was cool to talk to him about his journey from playing soccer on a team to getting injured to finding this group of guys and discovering his love for this new activity, particularly after knowing him by sight for several months but never talking.

Exciting activity coming up this week…stay tuned!!!

NC Visit

Eric and I had a great visit back to NC between Sept. 28 and Oct. 11.  We were so glad to be able to connect with many of you!  Eric also had the chance to finally meet our newest niece, Summer, who is now just over 4 months old.

The two got along well, as you might imagine.  The first time Eric changed her diaper, Summer recognized right away who she was dealing with and promptly tried to pee all over her uncle.  Luckily Eric was prepared.  A few days later, Drew (my brother-in-law) asked Eric and I to try to keep Summer awake for about 30 minutes longer in hopes that she would sleep a little later into the night.  Summer was not excited about it and just wanted her bed.  As you can see from the photo below, all she wanted was to lie down…so she ended up looking a little broken in Eric’s arms.

I had a good time getting some close-ups of her too.  Unfortunately for the sweet girl, I caught her mid-sneeze at one point!  This picture cracks me up.

We spent our NC time going back and forth between Raleigh and Chapel Hill.  First 3 nights in Chapel Hill with my sister, then 4 nights in Raleigh at Eric’s parents’ place.  My parents also joined us in Raleigh for a few nights.  We then had a hotel room in downtown Raleigh for 2 nights courtesy of Eric’s work, then back to Chapel Hill for 2 nights, then another 2 nights in Raleigh.  Whew!

Since Eric’s brother, Ray, and his wife, Jennifer, brought their kids Rylee and Tyler over to my in-law’s place a few times, we were able to spend a decent amount of time with them too.  It was my first time to see any of them since January, so I was thrilled.  Tyler took about 2 minutes to warm up to me again, then came and snuggled up in my lap.  He spent the rest of the time upside-down on the couches and chairs or crawling under the dining room table.  The boy never stops!  Rylee is reading like crazy and already told us that she wants books for Christmas.

They love their Uncle Eric!

They love their Uncle Eric!

As many of you know, part of our reason for being in town was because I had to have a minor medical procedure.  It ended up not being as invasive as they thought it might have to be, so I ended up feeling pretty good just a few days afterwards.  Thanks to everyone who asked about me.

I also had the chance to check in with my friend and wonderful orthopedic surgeon, George Edwards, while I was there (even though I was very disappointed that his wife and kids and I missed our opportunity to hang out due to various colds and coughs and mixed up schedules).  In mid-August or so, I jammed two fingers during capoeira practice.  It hurt, but I didn’t think much about it, taped them up with masking tape, and kept practicing.  Turns out, I had chipped off a piece of the bone in one of my knuckles, breaking my first bone ever!  Truth be told, I was a little excited to hear it.  Luckily, it has been healing well on its own, so nothing needed to be done for it.

The reason I went to see George…er…Dr. Edwards…was because around the same time that I broke my finger, my wrist started to bother me.  About two years ago, I fell trying to keep up with my Mom as she ran to a Taylor Swift concert.  I was actually yelling at her to please be careful b/c I didn’t want her to fall and break a hip.  Serves me right.  I ended up with a painful sprained wrist for about 6 months.

This time it’s the same kind of pain.  George says it’s probably a ligament tear, but of course he can’t tell without an MRI.  I’m currently resting it…which is stinky because capoeira involves a lot of handstands, cartwheels, and on the floor movements.  Our big end-of-the-year event is the last week of November and the first week of December, so I’m not foreseeing getting it back into great handstand shape by then.  I’m using this time to work on my kicks and adjust my game to include more standing movements, plus I’m working on my one-handed cartwheels.

We’re now awaiting the visit of Eric’s parents during the first week or so of November!  Looking forward to showing them where I’ve been holding their son hostage for the past 10 months.

One more thing:

Necesito apollo!

A friend of mine showed me this.  For those of you who don’t know Spanish, the sign says: The psychologist told me: “You need support!”

But the play on words is that “apollo” means support…but “pollo” means chicken…so it’s also kinda like you need a chicken…get it?  Bueno, I thought it was pretty funny.